MY HUSBAND WAS MY WORLD TILL THIS HAPPENED
When I got married, my husband was my world so much that I wanted to make sure he knew he could lean on me no matter what...and he utilised it very well.
Aside from this, every month an emergency will pop up and I will sort him out. I told my sister about my plans of stopping him from giving me the monthly allowance and she laughed heartedly. All she said was “newcomer nso bÉ›n ni (who is this newcomer in marriage?)“ she told me I should just let him do his responsibilities even if he ends up borrowing it back
Her reason was that, it’s better that way and that anything can happen and once I start that way it will become difficult to reverse it when I start really needing his money. I was reluctant to follow her advice because I just wanted my husband to see my value that I always came through for him. Especially since we were living in different towns .
Little did I know my husband was very rich 
so rich that he was booking hotels here and there with women. The first time I saw this I was shocked. I confronted him and he said he was sorry. Things went back to normal, and I kept helping him massively
so rich that he was booking hotels here and there with women. The first time I saw this I was shocked. I confronted him and he said he was sorry. Things went back to normal, and I kept helping him massively I saw the same pattern the second time but I didn’t ask him this time. I simply started having protected chocos with him while planning my exit
(That’s if he doesn’t change you know how they say women will always leave you emotionally first before doing so physically).
Gradually I withdrew my support. I started by telling him my business had gone bad, which was true at that time. I never knew my husband could take care of me like that to my surprise. I never knew my husband could manage his salary till the month ends .
. So that is the reason why I stopped helping my husband financially.
His birthday is next month. Like by now I would have started planning his birthday surprise since January and having sleepless nights just thinking about how I would make that day great . Meanwhile I have never gotten a birthday gift from him before . See how peaceful my life became after seeing the light .
. See how peaceful my life became after seeing the light . And to think that I was always brainstorming on how I can raise money and surprise this man with a car at 40 years .
I was a newcomer indeed!
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