Reason Why I Showed My Husband Hot Pepper Lessons He'll Never Forget
I showed my ex husband shege and it's a lesson he'll never forget in his life. It's a very long story please forgive me
When we were dating, it was so lovely and people were always talking about us and asking us to teach them how we were doing it. We got married and year one and two was great until bam he told me to resign from work, just like that. I was then 2 months pregnant, no pregnancy complications but Mr said he didn't want any issues later.
Aunty this thing I'm telling you lightly was very difficult for me because I'd gotten a promotion and he was saying I was choosing my career over my family. He involved family and friends until later in my 5th month I gave in after some issues at work
After I gave birth this man showed me pepper! I had complications during childbirth and a hospital bill of over GHC18000 which I paid over GHC16000 and he only paid 2000. I was in pain so didn't think about his refusing to pay more money. I came home with 0 in my bank accounts and momo and that's when he started. My mom came to help with the bathing and at a point she had to be using her own money to cook before I could eat.
When I complained to him he asked if he should go and rob people to feed me. Herhhh. When my mom was leaving, common 1 cedi this man didn't provide for her TNT and all that time he was crying over late salary and losing his money. Not knowing they were all lies. He was cheating and his girlfriend gave birth 4 months after we had our baby.
I found out and he refused to accept his mistakes and rather started giving me attitude in the house. One day, he refused to come home that evening and I had to go and beg one Amaria woman selling Koko to give me some. She came to visit me the following morning and I poured out all my suffering. She told me to forget my degree and start thinking about my future. I spoke to her about delivery of her Koko so that I could make some money and was happy. A friend helped me with some fliers which I started sharing on my page and status
This man called me and insulted me that I want his friends to laugh at him but I didn't mind him. It took about 2 weeks before someone ordered Koko so those 2 weeks you can imagine the treatment at home. Then afterwards I was getting regular orders. The money I was making was small but it was enough to feed me since I was doing exclusive breastfeeding.
Then Amaria told me to help her co wife's waakye business with the delivery and with that the money was better than before. I was getting orders from companies around and even to one church. I was doing susu and one man running a mobile money shop asked me if I would buy his SIM because he had won the American lottery and was leaving. I wasn't having enough and went to ask Mr but he told me when he's thinking about serious investments, he doesn't count what I'm talking about. I asked for 500 and he told me I was making noise in his ears. Hmmm
I decided to save some money because all I made went into the buying of the SIM. But I wasn't ready to give up. The day my baby became 6 months old was the day I started the mobile money business. I already had an SHS graduate helping me with the deliveries so I got another guy who had a motor bike and we added fried yam and pork which my neighbor was frying for me.
From when I started the Waakye delivery to the mobile money, because I was no longer sitting in the house, my husband started bringing some of the girls home. When I wasn't making money from the beginning and was still depending on him, he would complain saaaa before giving me GHC20 but when I stopped asking him for money and buying things for myself, he stopped bringing the ladies.
Then he lost his job. I wasn't cooking, I'll give him GHC20 and go to work. When he comes to the shop I'll tell him to go home because my clients need me. He used to go for waakye and I'll be forced to pay until I stopped. One day I told him I wasn't going to give him any money, I'll use it to pay for the waakye he was taking
He got some back pay he was waiting for and moved to stay with his baby mama. I didn't mind. Then less than 4 months later he came back begging after the other lady showed him shege and I showed him my own shege. I was still not cooking and feeding him. When he gave me money, that's when I cooked for the house. If not, I'll buy food outside and eat or Amaria will cook and give me some.
One day, our prepaid was about to finish and I gave him GHC100 to buy on his way to town. He used the money. When the prepaid got finished I refused to buy it. He thought I was bluffing, we were sleeping in the heat for 1 week until he got some money and went to buy it. I bought new clothes for myself and some Tshirts for my brothers. He came home and seeing the shirts was thinking they were for him until I called my brothers to come for them. He asked me for a loan of 2000 and I told him my money was being used for other things.
One day I woke up and he was crying that if he's done anything to me I should forgive him and I said since he didn't know that he had done anything to me, I didn't have anything to tell him.
I packed out of the house and moved to my one bedroom with my then 1 year and 7 months baby. I told my family and we returned his drinks. He's now going turned into a motivational speaker and telling people what happens when you don't value something. Someone heard him and came to tell me it seems he's changed so will I take him back, I told the person it's too late.
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