We've been dating for three years without sex. I told him right from the beginning that I would like to keep my virginity and he agreed. He had been awesome. He's helped me complete school. He gave me money and helped me pay for stuff I didn't have money to pay. I want to marry him, no doubt about it but all of a sudden, he's asking for my virginity on a platter.
My twenty-fourth birthday is fast approaching. All he's asking from me is intimacy. He wants it on the night of my birthday. He says I'll agree if I love him. Again, he says since it's precious to me, I'll give it to someone precious. I should prove he's precious.
There are so many ways I want to prove it to him but he says no way will work apart from that. I don't want to but I don't want to lose him too. How do I go about this so I don't lose any of the precious things in my life? He's not a bad man but I don't know why all of a sudden he's asking for this. Please help so I don't lose him.